🌿 Day 31 & 32 of 90 – When Calm Becomes the New Normal

This weekend was busy.

Not the kind of busy where everything is planned and smooth – but the real-life kind. Family time, responsibilities, little things coming up one after another. And yet, something felt very different.

After completing 30 days of this journey, I noticed a quiet shift inside me.

🌤 A Different Kind of Calm

I wasn’t in a rush.

Not rushing my thoughts.

Not rushing my reactions.

Not rushing the day.

Even when things got hectic, there was a calm underneath it all. A sense of “it’s okay, I don’t need to panic.” That alone felt like a big win.

I realised I’m getting triggered less, and when something does bother me, I pause before reacting. I think. I respond.

That difference – between reacting and responding – feels huge.

🧠 Letting Go of Pressure

At one point, I caught myself worrying:

“I’m late to post. I might miss a day.”

And then another thought followed – calmer, kinder:

“It’s okay. This journey is about awareness, not perfection.”

That moment mattered.

Instead of stressing, I chose understanding.

Instead of pressure, I chose progress.

I reminded myself:

✨ updating honestly matters more than updating on time

✨ living the journey matters more than documenting it perfectly

🌿 What Practice Looked Like This Weekend

This weekend didn’t allow for long practices – and that’s okay.

I managed:

Morning gratitude Evening gratitude Conscious awareness during the day

No guilt.

No self-judgment.

Just acceptance.

And maybe that’s what real mindfulness looks like – doing what you can, where you are.

🙏 Gratitude That Feels Deeper Now

I feel truly blessed.

For my family.

For the people around me.

For this sense of calm growing inside me.

I genuinely wish abundance, peace, prosperity, and happiness for everyone connected to me – near or far.

The more mindful I become, the more I realise how fortunate I already am.

Closing Thought

Days 31 and 32 weren’t dramatic or perfectly structured.

They were real. Busy. Full.

And yet… peaceful.

That’s how I know something is changing.

Mindfulness isn’t about having more time – it’s about having more space inside.

Published by Cinephileanu

Hi, I'm Anu! Originally from the beautiful hills of Uttarakhand (India), I now call Australia home. Moving countries wasn’t an easy journey – it came with its own set of challenges, goodbyes, and growing pains. But it also opened doors to new opportunities, friendships, and personal transformation. This blog is my little space to reflect, express, and share stories from everyday life — whether it's about adjusting to a new culture, lessons from motherhood, reflections on family back home, or just navigating this ever-changing world as a migrant woman. I believe growth happens when we step out of our comfort zones. And even though I miss my roots deeply, I’ve found joy in creating a new version of "home" here in Australia. When I’m not writing, I love relaxing with a coffee, diving into a good book, or enjoying moments with family and friends. ! Thanks for stopping by – I hope you find something here that resonates with you. Feel free to say hello or share your own story — I'd love to connect! 💛

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